Drop a
pebble in the water, just a splash, and it is gone.
But
there's half-a-hundred ripples, Circling on and on and on.
Spreading,
spreading from the center, flowing on out to the sea.
And there
is no way of telling where the end is going to be.
Drop a
pebble in the water, in a minute you forget.
But
there's little waves a-flowing, and there's ripples circling yet.
And those
little waves a-flowing to a great big wave have grown,
You've
disturbed a mighty river. just by dropping in a stone.
Drop an
unkind word, or careless, in a minute it is gone.
But
there's half-a-hundred ripples, circling on and on and on.
They keep
spreading, spreading, spreading from the center as they go,
And there
is no way to stop them, once you've started them to flow.
Drop an
unkind word, or careless in a minute you forget.
But
there's little waves a-flowing, and there's ripples circling yet.
And perhaps
in some sad heart a mighty wave of tears you've stirred,
And
disturbed a life was happy here you dropped that unkind word.
Drop a
word of cheer and kindness, just a flash and it is gone.
But
there's half-a-hundred ripples, circling on and on and on.
Bearing
hope and joy and comfort on each splashing, dashing wave.
Till you
wouldn't believe the volume, of the one kind word you gave.
Drop a
word of cheer and kindness, in a minute you forget.
But
there's gladness still a-swelling, and there's joy circling yet.
And
you've rolled a wave of comfort whose sweet music can be heard.
Over
miles and miles of water just by dropping one kind word.
~By James W. Foley~
Introduction –
Sometimes we
often neglect the ripples in our life for one reason or another. Whether it is
the hustle or stress of daily life, we must never forget those moments in our
life that brought us joy or happiness. Thinking back, we must remember every
act of kindness and love.
A valuable part of life that is often
taken for granted. Most of us dream when we are asleep and like the ripples of
dreams, we reflect, of different moments in time and space. Time and space, the
two fixings in a recipe for life, control our lives without any ability or
manner to harness either one with any success.
Since time and space is inevitable and
something we cannot control, the best we can do is hang onto those moments that
gave us joys and pleasures. And once those moments have passed, we can only
bring them back in our dreams or conscious awareness to think about those good
times, when life was good to you and those around you.
Dreams are brought through a heavenly
gate, giving us the hope, the love and the awareness that some deserve this
kindness that is spread so thin these days because of living a rat race that
sometimes produce pain, anxiety and heartaches. Finding a kind person has
become a rarity that one can only treasure and cling onto when found and never
let them go.
Separated by distance or work and
lifestyle, we often reluctantly let someone go and hang onto their memories to
keep the vision alive and how they are now connected to your reality. A reality
that faces the daily strife’s of work and play but never gives you the
opportunity to go back to yesterday and capture those moment again in real-time
and now only brought back alive in the ripples of your dreams.
In working with relationships and distress, I
have discovered that life at one time or another, will harm you emotionally,
and that at least at some level of this relationship, there comes a
misunderstanding.
I suspect that the reason for such
misunderstanding is simple placed on the fact that men and women are different
species in many diverse and unlike ways. Perhaps, this is the attraction that
brings us together and sometimes, this is the reason why we reject or repulse
others as there are ways said or heard, that tells you it is best to part your
ways and leave fate alone.
As a man, I like to think that we are
predominately a thinking species or beings, who received or send mental
processes, to others who may accept or reject the thoughts spoken or the acts
performed. I would also like to believe that as a man, I act in a rational and
logical way most of the time and not emotional during times of need or crisis
that requires a person to prevail a cooler head than others.
Whether or not that is true in most cases, it
based on whether another man or woman accepts or dismisses my actions or words
and how it impacts their own life and whether or not it is the truth spoken.
This woman I met in my life that has caused
me so many reoccurring dreams was someone so different, I could never forget
her. She always appeared to be in control of her own emotions and in tune with
her own spiritual being.
Although I want to say that she also
possessed a dominant trait of being a thinker, she too had a natural reaction
to think and process words and respond logically and less emotionally than most
women I have met.
She was not the kind that was hurt so easily.
She might have been the strongest woman I have ever known as someone who was so
close to me, as she could read my mind telepathically and my intent kinetically
and work through the hard times without missing a step in our relationship to
get over any pain and work harder through the feelings associated with any emotional
injury that might have occurred.
Isabella was different like that. She was in
tune with her emotions at all times and never showed a negative reaction to any
emotional pain or distress. She knew instantly whether the words spoken were
true or false and saw the lies and deceit through the body language shown that
contradicted the words spoken.
She had no difficulties working through the
hard times emotionally and often became the steady hand to rely on when things
got tough all over. Although these might be general statement in fact, they
ring true for Isabella whose heart was rarely broken, to a certain extent,
given by our human emotional or sensory limits.
Isabella was different in terms of emotion
and my ability to understand her and who she was and where she came from and
where she wanted to be. Never callous and always thoughtful, she was the kind
of person who could and would provide instant comfort to anyone in pain or
discomfort and instantly start to help or heal as well as protect a complete stranger
from further harm or injury.
Her compassion was unspoken and unlimited to
the realities of life and relationships. Her unique ability to protect her own
heart from emotional injuries was most fascinating and impressive to anyone who
saw the manner she handled such hurt or pain.
It was like her heart knew to automatically
go into a self-protective mode to keep others from causing further injury or
pain. Inside this woman, was a heart of a warrior and kept that secret inside
her as she hardly ever spoke a word of it to anyone.
Having this unique and most effective way to
protect herself from the harm of others, her strength only showed she was a
person who was true of heart and someone who never closed her heart from other
who needed her help or support to bear the fruits of life and positive
relationships in life. It seemed that she had so much room in her heart for
love, she had plenty of kindness and consideration to give to anyone who needed
it.
This is not to imply that this heart was
never broken. I suspect that at times during her life, she coped with things
that brought her pain as well as emotional injuries that only made her
stronger. Never prying in the past and always accepting her loving ways in the
present, we remained friends forever and shared some awesome moments in time
and space, forever.
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